Comments on: An Only Child? http://www.homemakerdiary.com/2010/01/26/an-only-child/ Thu, 26 Jan 2012 17:49:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: Ady http://www.homemakerdiary.com/2010/01/26/an-only-child/#comment-275216 Ady Thu, 28 Jan 2010 03:43:57 +0000 http://www.homemakerdiary.com/?p=2578#comment-275216 Saudara mara ramai pun tak guna kalau semuanya menyakitkan hati. Bukan lagi kasi senang, lagi kasi susah hidup. Friends you can choose, family you can only disown. His parents can live without saudara ramai, he will have to learn that too. And he's lucky we are not the kind of parents that will dictate how he want to run his life, but we will definitely always be by his side and supporting him in happy and sad moments whether or not he made the correct decisions. As long as he can take care of himself and his future family we'll be happy. @Anis: memang BS sebab tu aku cakap. Unfortunately tak boleh deny ramai yang fikir macam tu. @Yinhasni: betul, anak bukan eksperimen. Semua kena jadi. Saudara mara ramai pun tak guna kalau semuanya menyakitkan hati. Bukan lagi kasi senang, lagi kasi susah hidup. Friends you can choose, family you can only disown.

His parents can live without saudara ramai, he will have to learn that too. And he’s lucky we are not the kind of parents that will dictate how he want to run his life, but we will definitely always be by his side and supporting him in happy and sad moments whether or not he made the correct decisions.

As long as he can take care of himself and his future family we’ll be happy.

@Anis: memang BS sebab tu aku cakap. Unfortunately tak boleh deny ramai yang fikir macam tu.

@Yinhasni: betul, anak bukan eksperimen. Semua kena jadi.

]]> By: fabmama http://www.homemakerdiary.com/2010/01/26/an-only-child/#comment-275211 fabmama Thu, 28 Jan 2010 03:01:59 +0000 http://www.homemakerdiary.com/?p=2578#comment-275211 well i guess being the only child can be quite lonely in life, not to mention the pressure he/she gets to be perfect for the sake of parents wish...and being the parents who only has one child can be dull too...apatah lagi bila saudara-mara pon tak ramai... i said this probably because im married to the only child... well i guess being the only child can be quite lonely in life, not to mention the pressure he/she gets to be perfect for the sake of parents wish…and being the parents who only has one child can be dull too…apatah lagi bila saudara-mara pon tak ramai…

i said this probably because im married to the only child…

]]> By: Yinhasni http://www.homemakerdiary.com/2010/01/26/an-only-child/#comment-275052 Yinhasni Wed, 27 Jan 2010 00:29:46 +0000 http://www.homemakerdiary.com/?p=2578#comment-275052 MQ, berat lagi bahu yang memikul. Zaman semakin mencabar buat ibubapa dan anak2. Kami cuba yg terbaik dan termampu utk 2 org anak ni. Anak bukan eksperimen mcm ada org kata klu ada anak 10 klu 1 xjd ada lg 9.Mungkin x bebankan kita tp bebankan masyarakat. Bersyukur dpt besarkan anak2 dgn tangan sendiri. MQ,
berat lagi bahu yang memikul. Zaman semakin mencabar buat ibubapa dan anak2.
Kami cuba yg terbaik dan termampu utk 2 org anak ni.
Anak bukan eksperimen mcm ada org kata klu ada anak 10 klu 1 xjd ada lg 9.Mungkin x bebankan kita tp bebankan masyarakat.
Bersyukur dpt besarkan anak2 dgn tangan sendiri.

]]> By: MQ http://www.homemakerdiary.com/2010/01/26/an-only-child/#comment-275036 MQ Tue, 26 Jan 2010 18:04:22 +0000 http://www.homemakerdiary.com/?p=2578#comment-275036 Hubby, thanks for being supportive :) Anis, that's another view that parents these days seem to ignore. I just don't want to mention the fact about maids and nurseries raising their kids for them, nanti issue sensitive pulak kan..ramai yg terasa hati. I just wish they will respect what I feel and think regarding raising an only child, that's all.. Hubby, thanks for being supportive :)

Anis, that’s another view that parents these days seem to ignore. I just don’t want to mention the fact about maids and nurseries raising their kids for them, nanti issue sensitive pulak kan..ramai yg terasa hati. I just wish they will respect what I feel and think regarding raising an only child, that’s all..

]]> By: Anis http://www.homemakerdiary.com/2010/01/26/an-only-child/#comment-275017 Anis Tue, 26 Jan 2010 16:22:34 +0000 http://www.homemakerdiary.com/?p=2578#comment-275017 Some people just don't get it. And no, they do not know better just because they have or don't have children. The concept of having more than one child is overrated. And parents don't even take care of them hands on. With maids and nurseries available. Kids spent more time with friends than family. So to #*@! to whatever people say about you not wanting another child. You're doing great with Ilham. Don't you ever forget that!!! p/s: Ady... yg ade 10 anak pun bleh kawen lain.. mana bleh pakai reason utk kawen lain sebab wife xleh bagi zuriat. BS big time!! Some people just don’t get it. And no, they do not know better just because they have or don’t have children. The concept of having more than one child is overrated. And parents don’t even take care of them hands on. With maids and nurseries available. Kids spent more time with friends than family.
So to #*@! to whatever people say about you not wanting another child. You’re doing great with Ilham. Don’t you ever forget that!!!

p/s: Ady… yg ade 10 anak pun bleh kawen lain.. mana bleh pakai reason utk kawen lain sebab wife xleh bagi zuriat. BS big time!!

]]> By: Ady http://www.homemakerdiary.com/2010/01/26/an-only-child/#comment-274895 Ady Tue, 26 Jan 2010 03:24:21 +0000 http://www.homemakerdiary.com/?p=2578#comment-274895 You know what I think - "the reason most people reproduce". If I post an explanatory comment here or write about it, it'll sure to become a controversial issue. Even my Mom advised you to get a child else I will be looking for a new wife. This is the normal way of thinking for many people, worldwide. Unfortunately we're all human. Our son is lucky that he is produced out of love and we take care of him 200% on our own. I am proud of you. You know what I think – “the reason most people reproduce”. If I post an explanatory comment here or write about it, it’ll sure to become a controversial issue.

Even my Mom advised you to get a child else I will be looking for a new wife. This is the normal way of thinking for many people, worldwide. Unfortunately we’re all human.

Our son is lucky that he is produced out of love and we take care of him 200% on our own. I am proud of you.

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