Monthly Archives: February 2009

There are days that seems to move so slow (especially when the baby refuses to sleep at wee hour..huhu), but somehow we are already in the third week of February 2009.

I requested Hubby to capture this picture of purple flower in front of our current home last month since I would like to keep it as memory once we move to our new house. The tree is big (more than 2 metres tall) so it is impossible to plant it in our new almost-soil-less yard..heh! And I am pretty sure that the maintenance office won’t put such a big tree lining up the road as their decorative element in that gated community.

So if there is one thing that I will miss here in this housing area, it would be this purple flower tree..(note to self: find the name of the tree later).

I am still contemplating whether to reheat the leftover tomyam Hubby bought last night for my lunch today or to order something from Pizza Hut..heh! Oh, the baby is not sleeping, squealing in delight in the playpen, amusing himself.

Since I have not updated this blog for more than 2 days, I will try to type as fast as I could since I really want to catch up on my sleep while my son is sleeping..heh!

Hubby took the day off on Wednesday, reason being we have to go to the clinic for my Pap smear and baby’s 2-month-shot. Before that we went to JPN to collect his myKid and after that to EPF office to send forms to withdraw whatever amount I have in my Akaun 2.

We will be collecting our house keys in 2 weeks time, check for any defect with the maintenance office and after that we can start looking for contractor to install grill and lighting. I just can’t wait to move in..hehe!

Hopefully things will work out smoothly. Actually I want to write about something else today but I guess I will have to do that later. I’m too tired and sleepy to think and compose coherent sentences now..huhuhu!

It took me 3 days to finally update this blog. The previous entry is not counted as an update because it is a paid post..heh! I was hoping to update last night but somehow I didn’t manage to wrap up my draft and save it. All of a sudden I lost Internet connection and there goes my first few lines. Not that it is that important to get it published since I was writing about sighing in relief as I considered yesterday as a successful day but then at 5am I felt terrible as the baby refused to sleep…huhu!

When I typed the above title, my main intention was to talk about how we choose the path in our life and where it leads us to. But after receiving a distress phone call from SIL, I thought of sharing this with others.

Sometimes when it comes to love, it’s hard to make a wise decision. We tend to put ourselves through pain just because we thought he or she is the right person. We fail to see that if the so called thing that we thought as love creates such pain and large hurdle too great to overcome, then perhaps that’s the life sign to us to tell that it’s not the right path for us to choose.

But then if we are really, really sure that the person is the right one and we go with our instinct, then if that is what God intend for us to have, the path will be smooth and easier despite what other people say about our choice. Of course we have to strive hard to maintain the relationship but it shouldn’t be painful.

You can’t expect to be happy when the person sleeping next to you is the one who makes you cry day and night. Marriage should be built based on compromise and great ability to handle hard situation. If small matters make him or her freak out and throw tantrum, how do you think he/she can manage the stress in marriage later. No person should be too forgiving and continuously give in just to save face or to avoid confrontation.

In the end as jodoh pertemuan di tangan Tuhan, we can only pray that whatever path we decide to take will lead us to the eternal happiness, (kekal hingga ke syurga)..or if it happens to end sooner, at least we know that we have done our very best but only God knows what lies ahead for us.